The words ‘love’ and ‘marriage’ are interrelated to one another. The former is likely to be ensued by the latter; love becomes the precursor of marriage. Sometimes they are closely interwoven. And almost everyone wants to pursue both, and it is only few who would succumb pursuing it owing to some exceptional reasons.
In pursuit of love and marriage, a person should develop affiliation with another person, for it is the only means to absorb oneself in the game of love and marriage. The game should be played with a person of opposite sex; this would also include the bedroom game. Those who are distracted toward same sex would be labeled gays, lesbians, jerkoffs, nuts, and so on. But however nowadays due to granting excessive rights it’s not a ‘social stigma’ to marry a same sex; it’s just normal. Just do it! Policy makers say there is a law call ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ for same sex marriage. But the truth is no one gives a shit. By the way, don’t get me wrong! I am not the one.
Now let’s keep these love and marriage things aside and get down to brass tacks; let’s talk about commitment. Without commitment, the words love and marriage are almost nonexistent. Once a couple gets paired up, it’s the tendency to say that they are committed because our filthy mouths have become an indefatigable machine of lying. But the problem is, actions speak louder than words; we don’t walk the talk. When one betrays another, their relation cease to exist, or at least it startles the fabric of their love and marriage.
Men represent strength and are thought to be strong and charismatic; that’s why we say masculine for men and feminine for women. But the problem is, when it comes to this love thing men appear too weak and coward. When a wife or girl friend betrays you by going with another guy, just let her go. Don’t repent much! Don’t bemoan over and over again for the lost of one human creature from your hand.
Worse, suicide is the most disgraceful and hideous attempt men look for. There are loads of alternatives; use economics here! Hold your head up high and look for a new one; you should have the guts to look for someone better. As men, we have the god given right, free-will, to live and die in dignity. Don’t fall prey to some slutty chicks that are devoid of commitment, and those who give priority in hoodwinking men. So, next time, if your spouse betrays you and goes with another guy, just let her go. A person should be easy-going, like water!
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